One photograph, their name, the years
The Remembrance layout puts “In loving memory” above the name and the years beneath it. Choose a photograph where they look like themselves rather than the most formal one you have.
Remembrance
Their voice, still here.
A card with their photograph on the front. Anyone who holds a phone to it hears them again — laughing at something, telling the story they always told. Something the family can hand out at the service and keep for the years after it.
Ships in 24 hours · Can be kept private to family · Sets of 25, 50 or 100
Why families choose one
A photograph is how they looked. A video is how they were.
The thing people miss first is not a face. It is a voice, a laugh, the particular way somebody said your name. Those live in videos nobody watches, buried in a phone, and after a while people stop going looking for them because looking hurts and finding takes too long.
A card puts it one tap away instead. At the service it gives people something to do with their hands and something true to take home. Years later it is still in a drawer, and on the day somebody wants to hear that voice they do not have to go hunting for it.
It can be completely private. Password the page and the card shows nothing to anyone without it — not the name, not the photograph, nothing at all. Grief is not content, and none of this is public unless you decide it is.
What to put on it
Simple is usually right.
Ordinary, not polished
A minute of them at a kitchen table is worth more than an edited tribute. If you have several clips, start with one — you can change what the card plays at any time, including months from now.
A line, or the instructions
Either a few words of your own, or the plain “Hold your phone here” back — useful when the cards are going to a room of people who have never tapped one before.
Locked, if you want it locked
Set a password before the cards go out and only the people you tell can watch. You can remove it later, or add one later — the cards already handed out follow whatever you choose.
Sets & prices
What a set costs.
Includes the printed cards, the page that holds the video, and the ability to change what it plays for as long as you keep them.
| Cards | Each | Total |
|---|---|---|
| 1 | $24.00 | $29.00 |
| 10 | $18.00 | $180.00shipping free |
| 25 | $16.00 Popular | $400.00shipping free |
| 50 | $14.00 | $700.00shipping free |
| 100 | $12.00 | $1,200.00shipping free |
| 150 | $11.00 Best value | $1,650.00shipping free |
Set quantities, so pick the one above your headcount. Free shipping over $50. A printed back — a message, or instructions for the recipient — is $1 to $3 a card more. If the service is this week, order and then email us the date — we will confirm honestly whether it can arrive in time.
Questions
What families ask
The service is in a few days. Can you make it?
Usually, yes. Cards are printed by hand and shipped within 24 hours, so the print is not the slow part. Order and then email hello@itsdote.com with the date — we will tell you honestly whether it will arrive in time rather than let you find out.
How many should we order?
Families most often take 50 for a service and keep the spares — people ask for one afterwards more than you would expect, and reordering later means paying the smaller-set price again. Quantities are fixed, so round up.
We only have a voicemail, not a video.
That is often the thing families most want to keep. Email hello@itsdote.com and we will help you pair the recording with a photograph so the card has something to play.
Can we keep it to family only?
Yes. Put a password on the page and nothing shows publicly — not the name, not the photograph, nothing. Give the password only to the people you want to have it, and change or remove it whenever you like.
Can we add more later?
The card points at a page you control, so you can change what it plays for as long as you keep it. Families often start with one clip and replace it months later with something longer, once they can face editing it.
Can the funeral home hand these out?
They can. The cards are the size of a bank card, so they sit in an order of service or a basket at the door, and the printed back can tell people what to do with it.
Is this instead of a prayer card?
It can be either. Some families print the name and dates on the front like a traditional memorial card and let the video be the private part. Others use it alongside the printed order of service.
What if a card does not work?
Every card is tapped on a real phone before it is packed. If one still fails, reply to your receipt and we replace it — no questions and no cost.
If you need help with it, ask.
Email hello@itsdote.com and a person will answer. If the date is tight, say so and we will tell you straight whether we can make it.
Make a memorial card — from $24Ships in 24 hours · Free shipping over $50 · Change the video any time